The problem I was looking to solve was a simple one: could I get myself back into the shape I wanted to be in, despite the obstacles life throws at us? Without affecting my job, my relationships, my responsibilities? Could I possibly get into better shape? Was there some way to diet, to exercise, to introduce good habits into my daily life, without preventing me from doing the things I needed to do?
I came across many solutions. But none that seemed to fit what I was looking for. I no longer had the time to spend 4+ hours being physically active to offset the indulgences I had. Every personal trainer I spoke to offered me generic solutions; not a single one even bothered to ask me about my lifestyle, my interests, or even the goals that I had beyond “lose weigh. My experience with fad diets only drove home this point: there was no band-aid that was going to fix this problem. And whatever the solution was, it had to be one tailor-made for me.